Grief has its own lifespan

 

When we lose someone we have loved or cherished or held close to us, we choose two ways:

1). Either we learn to move on with time with it holding a part of it in our memories or 

2). We start finding peace in grieving.

Everyone says moving on is better than finding comfort in grief. Itna aasaan hai kya?

Grief is personal, it is tangible. It has its own lifespan, which is unique to everyone.

We can't compel ourselves, or anyone else, to move on. It isn't a race, and there is no finish line. Some people move on within a few days, while others grieve until their hearts stop beating.

-K Himaanshu Shuklaa..