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“If you give us 100 educated mothers, then we can build a stronger nation”. The meaning of these words spoken by Vivekanand was reiterated by a special Women’s Day show called  'Swayamsidha' to be telecast on DD National on 14th March at 8 pm. Renowned Bollywood actor, and maker of thought provoking show ‘Satyamevjayate’ appeared and made some significant comments on status of women in society.

Women's Day with a sassy bunch of Telly Diva's

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To celebrate women's triumph all over the nations, each year International Women's Day is celebrated on March 8. In celebration of this lovely day of womanhood, we had a chat with some beautiful TV actresses.

Cute and bubbly Giaa Manek, currently seen as Jennie in Sab TV's show 'Jeannie Aur Juju' is much like her onscreen character.  After playing a dumb yet intelligent Gopi Bahu, she decided to move out and left Star Plus' 'Saath Nibhaana Saatiya' to shake her legs in 'Jhalak Dikhhla Jaa'. 

For women there are a million reasons to be happy as they end up with two X chromosomes. What in your opinion is the biggest advantage of being a woman?

There are certain things which only we women can execute, like we can give birth. I think motherhood is the biggest pro of being a woman.

Are women weaker than men?

We are considered weak but the real fact is that we are emotionally much stronger than men.

Women play different role in one life span.

As a female we need to be multi-tasked, be it a mother, a housewife or a working woman.

Eve-teasing, physical abuse and even rape are very common social problems. What one piece of advice would you give to the Women to fight back?

It's a very serious issue. My advice is female education. As it is said “When you educate a man; you educate a man but when you educate a woman; you educate a generation.” So it is very important that all the females get good education. It will ultimately enrich them as a human to stand for their rights, have courage and be brave.

Any message to the readers of Scrutiny?

Be happy to be what you are, try to improve everyday and think what you have done for others.

Tina Dutta started her career at a sheer age of 5. She starred in Bengali Film 'Choker Bali' with Aishwarya Rai and further played younger Lolita in 'Parineeta'. She rose to fame after she starred as protagonist in Colors' show 'Uttaran'. Currently she is playing dual role of Ichcha and Meethi in the show.

What in your opinion is the biggest advantage of being a woman?

Being a woman itself is the prevalent advantage.  We have the ability to give life. No man can ever know what it feels like to give birth. The labor pain doesn't matter when a women holds her new born in her hands.

Any other advantage

We are more capable of expressing our feelings while men find it harder.

It is very well known that every coin has two sides and almost every good thing has a darker side. The same goes true with womanhood.

Yes there are so many cons of womanhood too.  Have you ever heard about Adam-teasing, male-feticide, woman burning her husband because of dowry, man gang raped by women? I am sure your answer is NO. I think all these are the drawbacks of being a woman.

What one piece of advice would you give to the Women to fight back?

Women should be independent since it not only make her financially stable but also increases her confidence to fight back. Do not tolerate eve-teasing, domestic violence. Discuss your problems with your parents and if required take help from local police station and also go for counseling.

Any message to the readers of Scrutiny?

Be safe, blessed and spread happiness since you have got just one life. Don’t spoil it with negativity or small issues.

Ridhi DograVashisth started her career with Zee TV’s ‘Jhoome Jiya Re’. This power packed performer and natural actor later did shows like Laagi Tujhse Lagan, Seven, Horror Nights, Swarg but she gained popularity for portraying the lead role in much talked bold show  ‘Maryaada-Lekin Kab Tak’. She will soon be seen in Life Ok show ‘Savitri’ as one of the lead protagonists.

For women there are a million reasons to be happy as they end up with two X chromosomes. What in your opinion is the biggest advantage of being a woman?

The biggest advantage every woman has is the fact that they are multi-faceted and multi- tasking. They are in touch with their emotional/intuitive side and when required they can easily switch to being more objective and practical. From the world’s renowned CEOs to our house maids; I believe all women have that capability to be able to run a career and be sensitive to their family, elders, spouse, and children.

It is very well known that every coin has two sides and almost every good thing has a darker side. The same goes true with womanhood.

That's one way of looking at it; I don't look at life like that (smile) and certainly not womanhood. Being a woman is the most beautiful blessing a human can get in every aspect.  But what do concerns the mind are the incidents like the Delhi gang rape and many such cases over the years. As I am from Delhi, I know the mentality of some migrants in the city. If there is a darker side of being a woman, it's the society that comprises of some really mindless men who do inhuman and gory acts towards women.  So it's not the women who have a darker side.  It's the society that doesn't understand their importance and dignity. They fail to absorb the importance of women in this so called 'Man's World'.

Do you believe in equality?

I've always said that I believe in equality. The things men can do women can do too if they had to!! Yes, there are some things only a woman can do and a man cannot even understand, likewise there are some things men do, like wrestle (laughs) that women don't wish too. Jokes apart, I don't think it's important for women to compete with men. Honestly, there cannot be a comparison. The 2 genders are very different and that's the beauty of it all.

Eve-teasing, physical abuse and even rape are very common social problems.  What one piece of advice would you give to the Women to fight back?

There's a piece of blog I had written in this regard soon after the Dehli gang rape took place and I still echo the same sentiments. Women all over should believe in the power they possess. Be alert, aware, and raise your voice, raise an alarm if needed. And the biggest gift we have from god is our intuition. Believe in it. You will be able to take precautions before it's too late. To all the women, I'd also like to say, don't raise yours sons like they are god-sent, or treat your husband's like they are your 'karta-dharta'. I'm not belittling men but just saying, women don't need dependency.  They need to be independently strong. They need to have their own identity and their own mind. Don't ever disregard your sixth sense. If you have an inclining NOT to step into a pub, walk a road, take a bus then please DON'T. Take your own decisions and always be responsible.

Anything you want to do to empower Women?

Yes, I am already a part of an initiative called 'shyamchi aai' which is an NGO started from scratch by my husband and Raqesh's sister Sheetal Bapat. It supports children and girl child in particular who don't have the financial or even the emotional support to study in recognized institutes, schools and study models up to the point of their first job. It's an absolutely brilliant endeavor started by tai, as we call her and I'm glad that I'm a part of it.

'Maryada' and now 'Savitri' your shows some way or another empower women.

 I myself cannot do any acting assignment where I'm playing a weak and submissive girl. I have knowingly walked out of auditions of such roles.  So yes, it's something I do on purpose and I'm more than grateful that I get such offers. Maryada was just that, so is my new show which is called 'Savitri' which will soon be on air on life ok. It's also a story of an ordinary girl who believes in her inner powers when she is pushed to a corner.

Any message to the female readers of Scrutiny?

My message to the readers - you are perfect because you are a woman. You are perfect with all your imperfections. So never doubt your individuality. God made you perfect the way you are… Yes, to enhance it and round it off like an uncut diamond is in the hands of the life you lead. So be open to a life full of experiences, leanings and evolvement. That is the true treasure of being a complete human.

Go on..

For, women's day I wish all the girls, ladies, women a very happy 'you' day. Don't wait for any man to celebrate your being today. Go out have fun, do what to wish to, put yourself first or the things that give you the most happiness. And always know you are special. The world would be a monstrous place if there weren't any women in it… Celebrate yourself and the women who are precious to you. 

-K Himaanshu Shukla... 

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Telly Diva's on Women's Day

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Dhrashti Dhami aka Madhu of Madhubala-Ek Ishq, Ek Junoon

“I feel that a woman is God’s strongest creation and she has enormous strength to deal with everything that comes her way; good or bad. Women today need to stand for themselves and not let anybody regulate their lives. They need to realise the value of their strength for the society and feel proud of whatever they are doing. This women’s day - regain your lost confidence, realise your worth and who you truly are!  Happy Women’s Day!

Sriti Jha aka Ganga of Balika Vadhu

There’s a reason to celebrate womanhood and proud to be one. In spite of so much being against us in the past, we have come a long way. Today we have a voice along with an independent identity. I have tremendous respect for the fight that we have put up through ages. Happy women's day for being a woman ought to be about happiness. We can achieve everything that we truly aspire for, let not anyone make you feel any other way...

Aakanksha Singh aka Megha of Na Bole Tum Na Maine Kuch Kaha

For an Indian woman, the society is changing a lot in terms of acceptance of the many roles a woman plays - as bread-earners in families, as professionals or as independent thinking individuals. Women have proved themselves time and again as equals in every aspect. I salute these women and wish them a very Happy Women’s Day.

Jayashree Venketaramanan aka Navika of Na Bole Tum Na Maine Kuch Kaha

This women’s day I’ll celebrate woman-hood and cherish my feminity with pride.  I wish all the dignified ladies out there - a social-worker, a working-woman, a home-maker, a student, an entrepreneur or simply ‘a woman’ a very Happy Women’s Day.

Dipika Samson aka Simar of Sasuraal Simar Ka

When a woman gets married, she plays various roles while taking care of the entire family and catering to everyone’s need. She is the binding factor of the family that keeps everyone together. This woman is the responsible one and needs to earn everyone’s respect and love while playing the myriad roles of a sister, mother, wife or a daughter. I respect these women for who they are, for without them, the world wouldn’t be what it is. Happy Women’s Day.

Tina Dutta aka Meethi/Iccha of Uttaran

We say that the strength of a woman lies in her self-belief. While she can stand strong in any earth shattering situation, she can also spread happiness around in good times. What makes her presence worthwhile is the smile on her face that she carries all the time while facing every obstacle that comes her way.
On this Women’s Day, I would like to salute this women power and their inner strength that keeps them going day after day.

Sreejita De aka Mukta of Uttaran

It is a privilege to be born as a woman who serves as a mother, a child, a sister, a wife, a companion or a guide; a woman dons various roles as the situation demands. Strong in mind yet emotional at heart if she can weep at the drop of a hat she can also be the most courageous and toughest of people when the need arises. A salute to these women in whichever part of the world they are. Happy Women’s Day. Let the best in you surface!

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International Women's Day Special

To celebrate women's triumph throughout history and across nations each year International Women's Day is celebrated on March 8.

I had a chat with three beautiful TV actresses Additi Gupta, Anupriya Kapoor and Aasiya Kazi, a day before International Women’s Day. 


Excerpts..

Additi Gupta

For women there are a million reasons to be happy as they end up with two X chromosomes. What in your opinion is the biggest advantage of being a woman?
There are so many advantage of being women. Like if I meet with a small accident, I just give a smile to other person and say ‘Sorry Uncle galti hoo gayi!!’ and my work is done. Or when I accidentally break something, I just wear a smile and say ‘Maine ye intentionally nahi kiya, Sorry!!’. I do it many times. A smile from women can make even the worst situation better.

It is very well known that every coin has two sides and almost every good thing has a darker side. The same goes true with womanhood.
Women are generally assumed to be weaker, in real we are the strongest species on the planet.

Any situation you faced, when you are considered weak?
So many times, for example guys’ think that girl can’t play cricket. So if we were to go for batting, they would slowly throw the ball towards the wicket. Guys think that we can’t play it all.

What's your take on ‘Naari Shakti’, which signifies power of Women?
Shakti represents divine feminine energy. We women’s are blessed with power of motherhood. There’s nothing like being able to experience pregnancy and childbirth. Men just can’t do that.

Society started equal valuing of the roles of women and men. Gender equality and women's empowerment comes in picture to overcome the barriers of stereotypes and prejudices. Nowadays women walk shoulder to shoulder with men, what do you think do we need reservations for women’s?
I cannot comment on overall reservation. Women's are raped in trains, eve teasing is very common social problem and every day in Mumbai local trains you come across some form of eve teasing. I think to avoid such things quota for Women’s are required in transport.

What is your advice to women who go through domestic violence?
Domestic violence is the most common unreported crime which our culture has accepted. Society does not allow us to speak out that’s why females have become use to it in their life that. In my view we should bare it till a certain level and fight when it crosses the limit.

Which woman do you admire the most?
My cousin sister Apala is my closest female pal. We know each other since the time we were kids. I love the way she thinks and her point of view is amazing. I am ziddi types, Apala is the only person who can change my point of view.

Aasiya Kazi

Do you take pride in femininity?
Off course, I do. I pleased to be a woman.

Dark side of womanhood?
Some people give more importance to boys. Still in many families birth of a boy brings so many joys where as birth of a girl is not considered as that blissful.

Are women superior than men?
Well I think yes, these days girls are ahead of boys and are working in similar or better positions than men.

Nowadays women walk shoulder to shoulder with men, what do you think do we need reservations for women’s?
Yes reservation is required it’s a step toward women liberation.

What is your advice to women who is going through domestic violence?
Don’t just stand back and let it happen go ahead and fight for your rights. You do not deserve to be abused.

Which woman do you admire the most? 
The most important person in my life my nani. I admire her from the core of my heart.  I hope she would have been there with me today.

Anupriya Kapoor

What in your opinion is the biggest advantage of being a woman?
I don’t think being a woman gives you any advantage. But yes I am proud to be women; there are certain things which only we women’s can execute, like we can give birth.

Any dark side of womanhood?
Like I just said being a women does not gives you any advantage, the other way round is also true. Being an educated, working women I don’t see any dark side.

But still being a woman is considered as a curse?
Hmm..yes it’s a curse in some part of society.  Sati pratha and female foeticide still exist among uneducated people. Sometimes I really feel sad because of such issues. Just because these people do not treat females nicely, women are considered as a curse in our country.

Are women superior than men?
God created Men and Women as the opposite sexes of the same species and we are supposed to be different in every sense. Neither man nor woman was superior or inferior to the other, we cannot compare two genders.

What's your take on ‘Naari Shakti’, which signifies power of Women?
Sadly women's strength has been historically underestimated. By God grace women have greater patience than men which make us strong. We are strong & capable, yet gentle and vulnerable. We don’t need talwaar to fight and that’s what I call Naari Shakti.

Society started equal valuing of the roles of women and men. Gender equality and women's empowerment comes in picture to overcome the barriers of stereotypes and prejudices. Nowadays women walk shoulder to shoulder with men, what do you think do we need reservations for women’s?
I don’t think educated and working class women need reservations, they are totally capable. Because of fewer opportunities for women reservations are must in rural areas. In such areas women really need some motivation to come out of the shackles of their households.

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